Why is my method of correcting my adult children not looked into by my husband?
My feeling is that you should not be correcting your adult children. They are adults, not children, and if they haven’t learned anything from you by now, they aren’t going to. And it’s possible your attempt to correct them will just drive them away from you. And just because you feel you can and should correct adult children, it doesn’t mean you are right about anything. Your corrections are just your opinion. Keep those to yourself unless you are asked for advice.