1. Are you happy with the number of people you have slept with?
I never kept count. I slept with people because I wanted to sleep with them. Once I rebelled at being sexually assaulted and made conscious decisions to have sex, I never looked back. I just wished I had known more about how to enjoy it than what I did. And to better ignore the guilt of women having sex.
2. Tell us a random fact about yourself.
Hmmm. Random Fact. About Me. Could you narrow that down a bit? Oh, I know… I have a whole lot of interests.
3. Would you say you have an excessive need for stimulation, and are you prone to boredom?
Not only am I prone to boredom, but I also get anxious worrying about being bored. And I tend to multi-task like right now; I’m writing this, watching TV, and dabbling at my games.
4. Do you have a history of promiscuous sexual behavior or wish you had?
There are some words that I hate.. and “promiscuous” is one of them. The word “promiscuous” tends to describe women more than men. It’s a judgemental word that tends to come from religion. See some of the descriptions I found: “Promiscuity is the practice of engaging in sexual activity frequently with different partners or being indiscriminate in the choice of sexual partners. … The term can carry a moral judgment if the social ideal for sexual activity is monogamous relationships.” and “Women are generally more flexible than men when it comes to their partners‘ sexual history, viewing 15.2 partners as “too promiscuous.” Men said they prefer partners with 14 or less.” and “How do you know if a girl is promiscuous?” and “What do you call a woman that sleeps around?”
As long as anyone is taking responsibility for their actions and practicing safe sex, it shouldn’t matter how many people they’ve slept with. “Promiscuous” is a word that needs to be no longer used regarding sexuality.
5. How do you cope with a sex drought?
b. sex droughts don’t bother me
c. try not to think about sex
C… but it’s usually a losing battle.
Bonus: If you were a wave in the ocean would you be rough or calm?
Actually, for me, it would be a rolling wave.
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